Concentrate:
Try to ward off distractions so you can listen more, fully and better. Some of these distractions may include the radio, television or a noisy area. It will be more appropriate to move to a quieter area while speaking to or with someone.
Listen with a Purpose:
Identify why you are listening. For example, are you listening to a friend’s problem to give a solution, listening to give your view or express your feelings? Whatever it is, you need to identify your reason in order to respond appropriately.
Be Positive:
Assuming a positive attitude before someone speaks to you will motivate you to listen better and even remember what the person says.
Make Eye Contact:
Look the speaker in the eye, and keep your expression open and interested.
Control Your Emotions:
If the speaker’s message affects you emotionally, try to stay calm and listen and then present your views.
Don’t Interrupt:
Let the person who is speaking finish speaking at his or her own pace.
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Well said-Most of us especially students do not know this and it even affects listening in class which draws attention from the teacher’s speech.
This is very useful. Thank you seekapor.